Friendship, Frequency & the Mission of the Heart.

A love letter to those walking their soul path in service to humanity, Earth, and the generations to come.

There’s a knowing I’ve carried since I was a child. A quiet, unwavering feeling in my bones that I came here for a reason. Not to be “important,” not to be recognised, but simply…to serve.

This isn’t about having a mission fuelled by ego or achievement. It’s a soul memory, ancient, cellular, and rooted in love. I know I’m not the only one who feels this. So many of us have come to Earth at this time to walk a similar path.

To be the bridge. To guide humanity. To help midwife this shift from the Age of Pisces into the Age of Aquarius.

We may do it in different ways, through parenting, healing, teaching, building, art, activism, storytelling, or just by how we show up in daily life. But the essence is the same:

We are here to help humanity remember. To return to love. To realign with truth. And to build a more harmonious world, not just for ourselves, but for our children and their children.

This Isn’t Just Work, It’s My Soul’s Expression

This mission has never been something I chose as an identity. It has always been a quiet calling that lived inside me. A knowing. Something I am, not something I do.

I’ve often described myself as someone who arrives in people’s lives at the right time, like the show Touched by an Angel. Which I get a laugh out of haha. Whether I’m offering love, reflection, or an uncomfortable truth, I’ve come to realise my presence alone can activate something in others. A mirror. It’s not always easy. Sometimes it makes me misunderstood. But this is the work of a Lightworker, not to be liked, but to help others return to their own light.

I don’t put on a work hat and take it off. I am the work. The work is me. It flows through my breath, my words, my parenting, and my presence.

The Courage Code. The Starseed Soul Course. The Sovereign Energetic Intelligence Method™. and a Founding Member of the Global Network of Light. These aren’t “products,” they are transmissions born from my lived experience and deep devotion to the collective evolution of this planet.

I Am Also a Mother, And That Comes First

While I am here for humanity, I am also deeply here for my own children.

Indiana and Kobe are the heart of my world. They’ve shaped me, challenged me, healed me. I built (and rebuilt) my entire life and business around them, so I could be present. So I wouldn’t miss the sacred years. So they would grow up with truth, softness, and the space to thrive.

Every decision I make, every time I say no to something, is because I said yes to them. And to the kind of future I want them to inherit.

This is not just about us. This is about what we leave behind. Our Legacy. It’s about planting seeds of integrity, love, and remembrance into the soil of a new Earth.

Friendship, Wounding & the Healing of Abandonment

Throughout the years, I’ve experienced deep heartache around friendships. People have ebbed and flowed in and out of my life, sometimes with explanation, sometimes without and to my core, it has brought up some of my most tender wounds. It could also be why I ebb and flow too but I realise from my journey that the Universe creates it that way for our core lessons and connection.

I’ve had to sit with the ache of abandonment . Not knowing why someone drifted. Not understanding what shifted. Wondering if I did something wrong, or if I was simply too much of a mirror. Because the truth is, sometimes just being me can activate something in others.

As a Manifesting Generator and reflector of energy, I now understand that I often mirror what others carry deep inside. That can be confronting, even if I come with love.

Over the past five years in particular, I’ve done deep, sacred work around this wound. I’ve explored how anxious attachment showed up in my astrology, especially through Neptune’s placements and how that has shaped my longing to feel secure and seen in close relationships.

But I’ve grown. I’ve softened. I’ve evolved.

I release those who leave with nothing but love. No grudges. No stories. Just a quiet wish that they find peace and alignment in their own time. And should any of them ever return, my arms and heart are open.

What used to feel like confusion has now become clarity. What used to feel like pain has become a deeper understanding of human nature, frequency, and resonance.

This is the journey of healing. From attachment to harmony. From needing to trusting. From fear of loss to freedom in love.

Friendship in a Soul-Led Life

One of the tenderest areas I’ve had to navigate is friendship. Because when you’re on this path, when you’re a mother, a healer, and a soul on mission, there’s not always room for the conventional expectations of friendship.

I love deeply, but overtime I have developed the fact that I love spaciously due to being a single parent and the energy I hold for many that ebb and flow into my life. To me, real friendship doesn’t need constant tending like a houseplant. It’s more like a star in the sky, always there, even when hidden by clouds.

True connection for me feels like this:

• ⏳ Time doesn’t dilute the love.

• 🌌 Space doesn’t threaten the bond.

• 🌀 When we meet again, it feels like no time has passed.

Others may experience friendship differently, and that’s okay. Some people thrive through consistent contact, frequent updates, and shared milestones. I like this too with certain people. Others see friendship as shared presence or mutual effort. And for some, love is felt only when expressed tangibly and often.

We each carry different attachment styles, emotional blueprints, and personal stories around connection. None are wrong.

What the Science Says About Friendship

Recent studies have shown that the way we form and maintain friendships is deeply influenced by our attachment style (Bowlby, 1988), nervous system responses, and even our neurobiology. One University of Kansas study found that it takes roughly 50 hours of time together to move from acquaintance to casual friend, and over 200 hours to form a close friendship (Hall, 2018). But that assumes time is the only factor, and it’s not.

Psychologist and author Brené Brown speaks of connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued, even without words. This kind of soul-deep friendship doesn’t demand constant maintenance. It lives in resonance, not repetition.

And in spiritual terms? Earth Angels often connect through frequency, not form. Some of us are here to be guides, not gatherers. We may walk into a person’s life to shift something inside them, and then walk away. It’s not disconnection. It’s divine timing.

As I once wrote, “Sometimes I can be stretched a little thin… but don’t fear, I am always thinking of you.” That still holds true today.

You can read my other blog post about Earth Angels HERE!

We Are All Just Doing Our Best

It’s important to remember:

Everyone has their own lens when it comes to love, connection, and friendship.

• Some need to feel remembered.

• Some need consistency.

• Some, value soul-deep connection and knowing that transcends time and space, like me!

None of it is right or wrong. We’re all navigating this Earth walk with the tools, wounds, and wisdom we’ve gathered.

And if you’ve ever felt left behind, unseen, or misunderstood, I see you.

I know that feeling. And I hold deep compassion for it.

A Message to My Tribe

If our paths have crossed, if we’ve shared a moment, a season, or a soul lesson, please know this:

I see you. I honour you. I’m grateful for your presence.

Even when I’m quiet. Even when I’m stretched thin. Even when I disappear into motherhood, sacred service, or deep inner healing, I haven’t stopped loving.

I haven’t forgotten.

Over the years, my mission has stayed the same… But I have evolved. 🌿

I am no longer here to be everything to everyone. I’m here to walk in alignment, grounded in love, surrounded by friendships that are heart-resonant, reciprocal, and soul-anchored.

The kind that feels honest. Safe. True.

This path I walk, the one so many of us share, is not about ego or hierarchy. It’s a soul-led devotion to the collective. To healing humanity. To heal ourselves. To balance out the healing with fun and playfulness. To holding the light steady while the old systems collapse.

I honour you for walking your own path, even if it’s different from mine. Because this isn’t about comparison. It’s about harmony. Not about perfection but presence.

As we shift into the Aquarian Age, we are remembering:

✨ Healing is an inside job

✨ But we were never meant to do it alone

Community matters. Resonance matters. Who we surround ourselves with shapes the energy we offer the world.

This is why I do what I do. This is why I create the spaces I create. To support the collective, not apart, but together.

One energy. One light. One rising.

I am here for humanity. I am here for my children. And I am here for my own soul’s evolution.

This is not just work. It is my breath. My prayer. My promise.

Thank you for walking beside me, in whatever way you do. And thank you for holding the light with me.

With all my love,

Laura x