Laura van Noordenburg

A blog post by Laura van Noordenburg | Sovereign Energetics™ Let's talk about the rule nobody seems to want to question. Don't sleep with him too soon or he won't respect you. Keep him waiting. Don't go too deep too fast. Play it cool. Be a mystery. It gets recycled across social media as if it's universal law. And honestly? I think it's one of the most quietly damaging pieces of dating advice women have been handed, dressed up as wisdom, sitting right on top of a very old, very tired belief...

Dating, Safety, and the Shift We Are Living Through Dating right now can feel strained, confusing, and at times exhausting, because people are often meeting each other from very different internal states. Through years of lived experience, and conversations with friends, clients, and students, a clear pattern has become visible. Many women are showing up highly aware, alert, and attuned in connection, while many men are showing up more guarded, measured, and at times distant in how they...

Remembering rhythm in a linear world Time is one of the first structures we inherit. Long before we learn who we are, we are taught when to wake, when to work, when to rest, when a year begins, and when it ends. We learn to move according to dates, schedules, deadlines, and calendars that already exist around us. For most people, this learning happens quietly, without question. The Gregorian calendar is the dominant timekeeping system of the modern world. It coordinates trade, school terms,...